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Originally Posted by SCUDSBROTHER
That's a sign your uncomfortable with the particular discussion. You want to attack the messenger. That's what people do when they find a conversation getting too heavy for their taste. That's something my Dad would do. If a conversation veers in a direction that he knows people won't agree, he will try to change the topic, by attacking the messenger. If I talked too much about that Turkish kid, you would point that out, too. I don't know if the problem (for you) is the subject of the discussion, or the fact you think somebody is getting too much attention ( by having the particular discussion.) You're obviously trying to change the subject(stop the discussion you're uncomfortable with.)
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lol. OK, thank you. I was not feeling great earlier today and now I know why. It is a relief.
I now know my problem. I will skip denial and projection phases.
What is my next step?
Please explain it to me as if I were a six year old.