DT Gals: Attracted to 'Bad Boys'?

Kasept · #1 03-04-2007, 09:06 PM

Here's a chance for Derby Trail gals to tell the guys what they long for in a man... and discover why they may continually fall for 'bad boys'... (when they could have nice guys like Rand and GPK...)

http://personals.yahoo.com/us/static...1uZXdzLXRhbmdv

paisjpq · #2 03-04-2007, 09:10 PM

you're kidding right? I'm going to throw up.

instead why not have the men explain why they only pursue the textbook 'perfect' woman...all the while overlooking or flat out denying their own flaws.

GPK · #3 03-04-2007, 09:12 PM

who the hell ever said I was a good guy??

GPK · #4 03-04-2007, 09:14 PM

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Originally Posted by paisjpq

you're kidding right? I'm going to throw up.

instead why not have the men explain why they only pursue the textbook 'perfect' woman...all the while overlooking or flat out denying their own flaws.

no denying my flaws here...where shall I begin??

ELA · #5 03-04-2007, 09:15 PM

This is a no-win thread, LOL.

Eric

paisjpq · #6 03-04-2007, 09:16 PM

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Originally Posted by ELA

This is a no-win thread, LOL.

Eric

once again... I will vote for you when you run

randallscott35 · #7 03-04-2007, 09:24 PM

"If you want a rat to push a bar forever, don't give him a pellet every time he pushes-then he'll only push when he's hungry. If you take away the pellet, he won't push the bar at all. But if every now and then you give a rat a pellet, he will push the bar forever. It's called intermittent reinforcement."

Isn't this what marriage is called? The hell with that...I'm getting a Harley and an attitude.

Cajungator26 · #8 03-04-2007, 09:51 PM

I took the test and failed miserably. Oops.

SCUDSBROTHER · #9 03-06-2007, 12:40 PM

Since the women aren't admitting to being attracted to bad boys,the question should be changed,and the good boys should be asked why they are attracted to women who turn out to like bad boys? BTW....95% of the guys on here are bad boys,and almost 100% of the women on here can't get enough of bad boys.Oh,and if you can't keep your a$$ on a road that would appear still(to most of us,) then you are a bad boy.....................................Somebody tell me why I like dogs that just so happen to have no respect for what they walk on(and have temporarily taken my rt. nut out of service.)

Cajungator26 · #10 03-06-2007, 01:51 PM

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Originally Posted by SCUDSBROTHER

Since the women aren't admitting to being attracted to bad boys,the question should be changed,and the good boys should be asked why they are attracted to women who turn out to like bad boys? BTW....95% of the guys on here are bad boys,and almost 100% of the women on here can't get enough of bad boys.Oh,and if you can't keep your a$$ on a road that would appear still(to most of us,) then you are a bad boy.....................................Somebody tell me why I like dogs that just so happen to have no respect for what they walk on(and have temporarily taken my rt. nut out of service.)

Scuds, what is your definition of a bad boy? I had no idea that 95% of you guys were big and smelly, tattooed mofos riding around on Harley's. LOL

SentToStud · #11 03-06-2007, 02:08 PM

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Originally Posted by Cajungator26

Scuds, what is your definition of a bad boy? I had no idea that 95% of you guys were big and smelly, tattooed mofos riding around on Harley's. LOL

some bad boys...

Cajungator26 · #12 03-06-2007, 02:13 PM

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Originally Posted by SentToStud

some bad boys...

You're not smelly.

Your dog is so cute!!!

SCUDSBROTHER · #13 03-06-2007, 03:39 PM

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Originally Posted by Cajungator26

Scuds, what is your definition of a bad boy? I had no idea that 95% of you guys were big and smelly, tattooed mofos riding around on Harley's. LOL

Well,your guy on a Harley would represent just 1 of a thousand different types of bad boys.2 others would be Tiger Woods,and Phil Mickelson.You ever hear Tiger curse on the golf course?It's pretty loud.Do you think Tiger called girls when he said he would call them?? No,he was watching hoops,and "just forgot." Phil is different,and many would think he is a "nice guy type," but people love to watch him because why???? He has that one quality people love in bad boys...unpredictability........this man is a huge risk taker...a gambler.He has many good qualities,but there is that unpredictable streak in him that he just can't get ahold of,and that is a bad boy trait.See,men are attracted more by the simple visual than women are.Women are attracted by a bunch of qualities,but #1 would be is the person "interesting." Good boys are not interesting,and they are way too predictable for most women.Women are way too curious for their own good.They like a flawed hero.They like a guy with some quirks.These Romance novels have got this down to a science.

GPK · #14 03-06-2007, 03:42 PM

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Originally Posted by SCUDSBROTHER

Well,your guy on a Harley would represent just 1 of a thousand different types of bad boys.2 others would be Tiger Woods,and Phil Mickelson.You ever hear Tiger curse on the golf course?It's pretty loud.Do you think Tiger called girls when he said he would call them?? No,he was watching hoops,and "just forgot." Phil is different,and many would think he is a "nice guy type," but people love to watch him because why???? He has that one quality people love in bad boys...unpredictability........this man is a huge risk taker...a gambler.He has many good qualities,but there is that unpredictable streak in him that he just can get ahold of,and that is a bad boy trait.See,men are attracted more by the simple visual than women are.Women are attracted by a bunch of qualities,but #1 would be is the person "interesting." Good boys are not interesting,and they are way too predictable for most women.Women are way too curious for their own good.They like a flawed hero.They like a guy with some quirks.These Romance novels have got this down to a science.

I guess Phil having a little "jungle fever" and getting some on the side makes him a bad boy too

Cajungator26 · #15 03-06-2007, 03:50 PM

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Originally Posted by GPK

I guess Phil having a little "jungle fever" and getting some on the side makes him a bad boy too

WOW, Kevin...

See, there is no defined term for a "bad boy." It's probably different for most women...

Scuds, you're correct on most of your points. I definitely need an interesting guy... I hate to be bored. Horseplayers are hardly boring characters, though, so you guys provide me with massive amounts of entertainment without even realizing it.

SCUDSBROTHER · #16 03-06-2007, 04:11 PM

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Originally Posted by GPK

I guess Phil having a little "jungle fever" and getting some on the side makes him a bad boy too

Yes(if he indeed did that,)but the question is what is attractive (to women) about a bad boy.See,a typical married nice guy type would not even consider having that kind of sex.They don't want it.Bad boys are flawed.They want it,and constantly have an internal fight to avoid doing it.Women know that bad boys want sex with other women.They know they have to work to keep him sexually satisfied. He may be bad,but he is not dull,or uninteresting.The "nice guy" type has no problem having the same sex partner all the time.He doesn't have this interesting little internal war inside himself.Women don't seek out bad boys,but they are usually simply more attracted to them.They are often bored by the nice-guy type.Hillary is still with Bill,and that's because she(and most women) find him charismatic,dangerous,interesting etc.(a bad boy.)

Grits · #17 03-06-2007, 04:10 PM

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Originally Posted by SCUDSBROTHER

Well,your guy on a Harley would represent just 1 of a thousand different types of bad boys.2 others would be Tiger Woods,and Phil Mickelson.You ever hear Tiger curse on the golf course?It's pretty loud.Do you think Tiger called girls when he said he would call them?? No,he was watching hoops,and "just forgot." Phil is different,and many would think he is a "nice guy type," but people love to watch him because why???? He has that one quality people love in bad boys...unpredictability........this man is a huge risk taker...a gambler.He has many good qualities,but there is that unpredictable streak in him that he just can't get ahold of,and that is a bad boy trait.See,men are attracted more by the simple visual than women are.Women are attracted by a bunch of qualities,but #1 would be is the person "interesting." Good boys are not interesting,and they are way too predictable for most women.Women are way too curious for their own good.They like a flawed hero.They like a guy with some quirks.These Romance novels have got this down to a science.

I'm speechless here.

You're talking about "bad boys" and "risk takers" being one in the same, on a GOLF COURSE, of all places. Yes, they might miss a shot and blow the lead, but real risk takers...pass. Not a chance, not on a golf course.

Cajungator26 · #18 03-06-2007, 02:09 PM

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From a now "private" myspace blog...fellas, don't kill yourselves trying to sweep her off her feet!

Holy SHIAT! She better look like Cindy Crawford with that kind of attitude!

#19 03-06-2007, 02:13 PM

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Originally Posted by Cajungator26

Holy SHIAT! She better look like Cindy Crawford with that kind of attitude!

I hope she gets everything she asks for and as an added bonus a trip to "Vienna" on her wedding night.

Cajungator26 · #20 03-06-2007, 02:16 PM

Don't you love how the topic starter is avoiding this thread now? Who can blame him!