How do you?

RockHardTen1985 · #1 04-13-2010, 04:44 PM

How do you move on? From anything, a certain girl? A certain friend, a job? Gambling even? How do you take a break and just stop? I have a hard time, me and my x are driving each other crazy and I know I need to be done, but I dont, I call her and email her 50 times a day, she does the same. I hate my job and I know I need a new one, but I stay. My best friend from highschool is selfish, I know I need to be done with him but I still chill with him. Gambling, Im at a point where I just got smashed in the NCAA tourny and I know I need a break, but I still bet. Any advice? Can we try to keep the bullshit to a minimum, I am a sensitive guy and this is a serious thread no joke intended.

clyde · #2 04-13-2010, 04:46 PM

Kill yourself.

#3 04-13-2010, 05:21 PM

You can act like a man!

Danzig · #4 04-13-2010, 05:31 PM

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Originally Posted by RockHardTen1985

Ok Coach, we both know your not even serious. I used it act that way, and the bottom line is real men dont act that way.

i believe he typed a line from the godfather there.
but he's got a point.

#5 04-13-2010, 05:38 PM

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Originally Posted by RockHardTen1985

Ok Coach, we both know your not even serious. I used it act that way, and the bottom line is real men dont act that way.

Real men don't spill their guts on an internet forum

*slap*

randallscott35 · #6 04-13-2010, 05:49 PM

You need to be banned again...cluttering up the board with your bullshit.

3kings · #7 04-13-2010, 05:58 PM

You're in the early 20's doldrums. Your career and life aren't what you think they should be. I think most people go through this unless they are in a career that they always dreamed of. Find a new job out of town. You will be forced to do things on your own with out the usual people who drag you down and helped get you into this rut. It won't be an easy transition but you will be forced to make new friends and survive on your own. Once you are forced to mature (this is not a shot) you will able to trust again and everything will be fine.

hi_im_god · #8 04-13-2010, 08:16 PM

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Originally Posted by 3kings

You're in the early 20's doldrums. Your career and life aren't what you think they should be. I think most people go through this unless they are in a career that they always dreamed of. Find a new job out of town. You will be forced to do things on your own with out the usual people who drag you down and helped get you into this rut. It won't be an easy transition but you will be forced to make new friends and survive on your own. Once you are forced to mature (this is not a shot) you will able to trust again and everything will be fine.

but how many of them ask random strangers for advice?

philcski · #9 04-13-2010, 05:53 PM

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Originally Posted by clyde

Kill yourself.

got a suggested method for PG?

clyde · #10 04-14-2010, 10:19 AM

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Originally Posted by philcski

got a suggested method for PG?

Yes.

Read these responses.

Gaining Ground · #11 04-13-2010, 08:38 PM

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Originally Posted by clyde

Kill yourself.

best advice i have seen in a long time

timmgirvan · #12 04-13-2010, 08:45 PM

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Originally Posted by Gaining Ground

best advice i have seen in a long time

hopefully NOT one of your friends!

I think you're obsessing about things because you are coming out of a relationship. It takes time to rebound, so relax a little, stop playing horses for a couple of weeks, read a book, and get some sleep. Life will be there when you're ready for it.

2MinsToPost · #13 04-13-2010, 08:47 PM

I don't know you at all, just what I have read on here. So, take it or leave it.

OCD, look it up

If you call or email your girlfriend 50 times in a day then you have

too much spare time

Get busy living life and life ain't being lived when you sit behind a keyboard typing the things you did man. Sounds like you are asking for help and I suggest you do what I suggested. Check into OCD you might fit the bill in one way or the other.

Take care of yourself and go live life

Sightseek · #14 04-13-2010, 09:01 PM

Focus on positive things, like being the best father you can be and when you can't be with your sons, do something positive for yourself, like eating well and going to the gym!

Going to the gym really is a really great way to put aside everything that sucks in your life. Besides, you should aim to be healthy to be around for your children as long as possible.

AeWingnut · #15 04-13-2010, 09:17 PM

I think restraining order

or you could sit in the dark putting cigarettes out on yourself while listening to the blues.

if you really want to get back at her

be happy

they hate that

#16 04-13-2010, 11:59 PM

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Originally Posted by Sightseek

Focus on positive things, like being the best father you can be and when you can't be with your sons, do something positive for yourself, like eating well and going to the gym!

Going to the gym really is a really great way to put aside everything that sucks in your life. Besides, you should aim to be healthy to be around for your children as long as possible.

Yeah he'll probably die two years too soon if he doesn't work out.

MaTH716 · #17 04-14-2010, 09:23 AM

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Originally Posted by Rudeboyelvis

Seriously - put all the bullshit behind you - find something you are passionate about and pursue it with vigor...Work is always going to suck - deal with it - that's why you get paid to show up. People that "love" what they do for a living are infinitely blessed, or full of it and have their own issues...

If you are unhappy in your relationship GTFO!!!! You can always make money, meet new friends, etc....but you will NEVER get your time back. There is nothing worse than wasting your life in a shitty relationship just because its "comfortable". It WILL eventually end, and you'll eventually find happiness then kick yourself in the ass for staying as long as you did.

If you've seriously got a gambling problem, you need help. Period. You're never going to win in the long run. Ever. No one does - if they say they do, they are full of SH!T...If it's more than a casual pastime that you can afford to lose what you put into it, you've got issues that you need to deal with.

Lose some weight, gain some self-confidence and chart a path.

Good luck Joseph

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Originally Posted by Sightseek

Focus on positive things, like being the best father you can be and when you can't be with your sons, do something positive for yourself, like eating well and going to the gym!

Going to the gym really is a really great way to put aside everything that sucks in your life. Besides, you should aim to be healthy to be around for your children as long as possible.

You can't get any better advice than these.

clyde · #18 04-14-2010, 10:23 AM

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Originally Posted by Sightseek

Focus on positive things, like being the best father you can be and when you can't be with your sons, do something positive for yourself, like eating well and going to the gym!

Going to the gym really is a really great way to put aside everything that sucks in your life. Besides, you should aim to be healthy to be around for your children as long as possible.

Oh my God.

Now I'm going to kill myself!!

clyde · #19 04-14-2010, 10:20 AM

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Originally Posted by Gaining Ground

best advice i have seen in a long time

Thank you sssssso much.

It's a gift.

richard burch · #20 04-14-2010, 09:44 PM

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Originally Posted by RockHardTen1985

How do you move on? From anything, a certain girl? A certain friend, a job? Gambling even? How do you take a break and just stop? I have a hard time, me and my x are driving each other crazy and I know I need to be done, but I dont, I call her and email her 50 times a day, she does the same. I hate my job and I know I need a new one, but I stay. My best friend from highschool is selfish, I know I need to be done with him but I still chill with him. Gambling, Im at a point where I just got smashed in the NCAA tourny and I know I need a break, but I still bet. Any advice? Can we try to keep the bullshit to a minimum, I am a sensitive guy and this is a serious thread no joke intended.

one thing for sure... dont quit your job....if you do, use clyde's suggestion.