I need more love advice - Page 4

SniperSB23 · #61 01-28-2009, 11:35 PM

Why are you trying to date a 21 year old? Sounds like your situation is just fine, hook up with her on occasion and completely forget about a relationship. The point that you have a problem is when she actually wants to move onto a real relationship. Then you get out quick cause she sounds a bit nuts.

SCUDSBROTHER · #62 01-29-2009, 12:26 AM

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Originally Posted by Cannon Shell

You are 25, the word love should not be uttered unless it has something to do with betting.

I love Atticus Jack the next time he runs(especially if he is Gryder-free.)

SCUDSBROTHER · #63 01-29-2009, 01:20 AM

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Originally Posted by letswastemoney

I have a girlfriend now. I'm 25 and she is 21. But she's very indecisive and flaky about a lot of things.

Like one day she'll really really like me, and the next day she's completely cold and turns away my hand when I try to hold her or something.

Then the next day she complains that I don't hold her enough. So that's the nature of her personality, I really don't know what to expect tomorrow anymore.

I don't think you want to be told to leave her. If you could do that, then you would of done that. You want to know how to stop liking her, or get her to like you enough to spend Valentine's Day with you etc. etc. You make it seem like you could leave the situation. I don't believe that, but if that's true, then do it (leave yesterday.) Don't say you'll put up with her being with someone else on Valentines Day. She wants you to get upset with that. She's looking for that strength from you. She wants you to tell her no. Tell her it's over (if she doesn't spend it with you.) Keep doing that. Keep getting mad at her(and she with you,) and making up with her. That's what she feels comfortable with. That's her normal, or what she likes. Argue, make-up, and afterglow...repeat, repeat, repeat. You like her. So, that's how to get her to keep liking you. She ain't right(but you know that.) Like I said, leave the situation (if you can.) If you're stuck on her, then do what I said. Don't be nice all the time(that's boring to her.) When she comes back(after the arguing) then be nice. Let her make the 1st move on the making up. She's done this before with you. It's what she likes.

Bigsmc · #64 01-29-2009, 05:31 AM

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Originally Posted by SCUDSBROTHER

I don't think you want to be told to leave her. If you could do that, then you would of done that. You want to know how to stop liking her, or get her to like you enough to spend Valentine's Day with you etc. etc. You make it seem like you could leave the situation. I don't believe that, but if that's true, then do it (leave yesterday.) Don't say you'll put up with her being with someone else on Valentines Day. She wants you to get upset with that. She's looking for that strength from you. She wants you to tell her no. Tell her it's over (if she doesn't spend it with you.) Keep doing that. Keep getting mad at her(and she with you,) and making up with her. That's what she feels comfortable with. That's her normal, or what she likes. Argue, make-up, and afterglow...repeat, repeat, repeat. You like her. So, that's how to get her to keep liking you. She ain't right(but you know that.) Like I said, leave the situation (if you can.) If you're stuck on her, then do what I said. Don't be nice all the time(that's boring to her.) When she comes back(after the arguing) then be nice. Let her make the 1st move on the making up. She's done this before with you. It's what she likes.

Scuds, I didn't know you had it in you. The nail has been struck, right on the head.