I need more love advice

[dellinger63]

Two words and I can't type the full last word

Grudge Fu

and bye-bye

[Danzig]

all i know is in one month, to have already included multiple break-ups, the word 'love' and marriage--you both need to run. in opposite directions of course.

[letswastemoney]

Originally Posted by Danzig

all i know is in one month, to have already included multiple break-ups, the word 'love' and marriage--you both need to run. in opposite directions of course.

Well I'll give more backstory I guess. I met her last February in a class at my university. I dated her twice maybe last Spring but it didn't work out.

Then months went on and I didn't message her until....December. I saw that she was still on my Facebook profile so I messaged her saying, "Just delete me, and let's forget about each other."

And it had the opposite affect, she wanted to see me again, and that's how it started again, after all those months of not speaking to each other.

[GPK]

Originally Posted by letswastemoney

Well I'll give more backstory I guess. I met her last February in a class at my university. I dated her twice maybe last Spring but it didn't work out.

Then months went on and I didn't message her until....December. I saw that she was still on my Facebook profile so I messaged her saying, "Just delete me, and let's forget about each other."

And it had the opposite affect, she wanted to see me again, and that's how it started again, after all those months of not speaking to each other.

You want some brutally honest advice?

[geeker2]

I am with Hossey on this - but don't have any kids.

[Scav]

Originally Posted by DaHoss9698

You both sound a little crazy. I say stay with her.

Why are you only Predator Jr when the top predator has left us? I nominate Hossy for King Predator....

[geeker2]

Originally Posted by Scav

Why are you only Predator Jr when the top predator has left us? I nominate Hossy for King Predator....

I am with Scav on this-but don't have any kids.

[GPK]

Originally Posted by GPK

You want some brutally honest advice?

My opinion? You're both too f*cking needy and too young to be tied down to one person. Your 25 dude.

[ddthetide]

Originally Posted by letswastemoney

Well I'll give more backstory I guess. I met her last February in a class at my university. I dated her twice maybe last Spring but it didn't work out.

Then months went on and I didn't message her until....December. I saw that she was still on my Facebook profile so I messaged her saying, "Just delete me, and let's forget about each other."

And it had the opposite affect, she wanted to see me again, and that's how it started again, after all those months of not speaking to each other.

Dump her Today! move on and don't look back. sounds like you both need to grow up.

[TheSpyder]

She has issues with her Dad who hates or is mean to her. Find out about it and you'll know how to play it and whether she's worth it. May have been abused is some way.

[Danzig]

Originally Posted by TheSpyder

She has issues with her Dad who hates or is mean to her. Find out about it and you'll know how to play it and whether she's worth it. May have been abused is some way.

then she needs therapy, not a boyfriend.

[Antitrust32]

Originally Posted by MaTH716

Run away quicky. First thing is your 25, you have plenty of time to get incarcerated , I mean married. Why would you want to settle down now anyway? Let alone with a 21 year old hoocie that still wants to go clubbing. My guess there is that she has some single girlfriends (probably real dogs), that want to go out on V-Day because they don't want to be alone. And at this point she would rather be with her girls than you. Let me let you in on a little secret. 99.9% of women are crazy. With the exception of the few that post here and my wife (just in case she reads this), they are almost all certifiable. If you are a nice guy like you say you are, you will eventually land the big fish. But if you really have marriage on the brain, just ask yourself this question when it comes to any girl you are seeing. Is this the woman I want to spend the rest of my life with? If you have to debate the question at all, then you probably know what the answer is.

LOL... yeah you are definately married!!!

[geeker2]

Originally Posted by DaHoss9698

I laughed

NIAGW

[letswastemoney]

Originally Posted by TheSpyder

She has issues with her Dad who hates or is mean to her. Find out about it and you'll know how to play it and whether she's worth it. May have been abused is some way.

She's already told me her parents didn't want her as a kid....she lives with some guy who she calls her dad...I think it's her uncle....

[Danzig]

oh my god.

lets-delete her phone # right after you call and dump her. trust me. don't get sucked into being sir galahad rescuing a damsel in distress.

[MaTH716]

Originally Posted by letswastemoney

She's already told me her parents didn't want her as a kid....she lives with some guy who she calls her dad...I think it's her uncle....

Dude, don't you realize that this is the kind of baggage/issues that you are going to have to deal with for the rest of your life. Or at least until she murders you.
GET OUT NOW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[AeWingnut]

Originally Posted by DaHoss9698

You both sound a little crazy. I say stay with her.

excellent point. They need to stay together. why screw up two other people's lives.

[3kings]

You should probably ask Dagulla, he strikes me as someone who would give good relationship advise.

[Riot]

Originally Posted by Cannon Shell

You are 25, the word love should not be uttered unless it has something to do with betting.

Or beer.

Run from the drama queen.

[Riot]

Originally Posted by doll0608

I have better advice:

Let her go out with GPK a few times, she'll definately be happy to come running back and will never leave. Kind of like scared straight.

I laughed. Pretty long.

Sorry, Kev