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Old 09-22-2010, 10:04 PM
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ridiculous.

If you are willing to fight & die to protect this country, it shouldnt matter if you are Hulk Hogan or a flaming fairy.
Hey Homo, I was just stating the fact that before Dont ask dont Tell they could just ask you and kick you out. As it stands they cant ask you. Jeesh Im a freaking lesbo and yer giving me shyte, Im revoking your microwave and card.
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Old 09-22-2010, 10:14 PM
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Honu, do you want "we the people" to be able to decide if you can be an exercise rider based upon your sexual orientation? How does who you love have anything to do with how you do your job? It doesn't, it should be irrelevant. But there are still enough people who, for religious reasons, don't think gays should be able to do a lot of things... get married, adopt children, work in the military, etc. They shouldn't get to decide what you or anyone else does for a living or how you live your life. I wouldn't trust any aspect of my life to a vote - no majority should be able to say, you can't marry the person you love, you can't give a child a loving home, and you can't work with straight people just because WE don't like what you do with your personal life.
I am legally married to a woman here in California, how many DTers have had their marriage fall apart because of that fact? How many of their children have had nightmares and have to go through therapy because of my marriage? How many people that I know have had this happen to them? Not a single one. But that's the fear. We're still at least a generation removed from where being gay won't matter, until then any vote having to do with "gay rights" is no sure thing.
Jeez do you really think Im that simple? Maybe you do but my job in the private sector has nothing to do with military policy. The policy is and has been established that gays are not allowed in the services and yet WE still signup for whatever reason. That being said doesnt mean its right but at this point we are allowing the politicians to dictate who serves and who doesnt, not us the people. I am in a domestic partnership, but even before that in my relationship I felt no diffirent than when we were just living together than I do now, but that is just me. I have a right to work in the private sector with no discrimination, but this is not how it is in the military, its called the military for a reason because it is not a democracy. You are to follow orders and so forth and until the American people let their elected officials know that they dont give a crap about who serves it will just be forever a political move.
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Jeez do you really think Im that simple? Maybe you do but my job in the private sector has nothing to do with military policy. The policy is and has been established that gays are not allowed in the services and yet WE still signup for whatever reason. That being said doesnt mean its right but at this point we are allowing the politicians to dictate who serves and who doesnt, not us the people. I am in a domestic partnership, but even before that in my relationship I felt no diffirent than when we were just living together than I do now, but that is just me. I have a right to work in the private sector with no discrimination, but this is not how it is in the military, its called the military for a reason because it is not a democracy. You are to follow orders and so forth and until the American people let their elected officials know that they dont give a crap about who serves it will just be forever a political move.
Of course I don't think you're simple but I do think you're missing my point. I don't think this is an issue that can be trusted to a vote of "we the people" - if it was up to the majority, WE wouldn't be allowed to get married (as is the case here in California and many other states), we wouldn't be allowed to adopt children (Florida), or work in certain jobs (it wasn't that long ago that it was put up for a vote whether or not gays could be teachers). Just because there is a policy, that doesn't mean it should be blindly followed - actually, the military is the perfect place for this rule to be eliminated, the brass tells the troops to leave the gays alone and they have to follow the order - it's that easy!
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Old 09-22-2010, 11:40 PM
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Of course I don't think you're simple but I do think you're missing my point. I don't think this is an issue that can be trusted to a vote of "we the people" - if it was up to the majority, WE wouldn't be allowed to get married (as is the case here in California and many other states), we wouldn't be allowed to adopt children (Florida), or work in certain jobs (it wasn't that long ago that it was put up for a vote whether or not gays could be teachers). Just because there is a policy, that doesn't mean it should be blindly followed - actually, the military is the perfect place for this rule to be eliminated, the brass tells the troops to leave the gays alone and they have to follow the order - it's that easy!
Ok I get your point, but "we the people" seem and I may be wrong, to care less about people serving in the military than they do about "US" comprimising the sanctity of their marriage. They want to hold the name of "marriage" as something unto themselves for whatever absurd reasons.
I feel that if the issue of gays in the military were put to a vote before the whole population of this country that no one would wish to bar them. My "brother in law" who is in the Air Force says that he doesnt know of any one in his unit or anyone that he hangs with who gives a crap about gays being in the military. So maybe Im giving the American people to much credit but I just dont think a large number of Americans care who you sleep with, all the while be willing to die for them.
Politicians use this platform as leverage and will continue to do so as long as we let them.
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Old 09-22-2010, 11:53 PM
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YOUUUUUUU ARE GREAT MY QUEEN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Hey Homo, I was just stating the fact that before Dont ask dont Tell they could just ask you and kick you out. As it stands they cant ask you. Jeesh Im a freaking lesbo and yer giving me shyte, Im revoking your microwave and card.
lol

I still think the putting it up to a vote proposal is ridiculous!!
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TACOMA, Wash. — A federal judge ruled Friday that a decorated flight nurse discharged from the Air Force for being gay should be given her job back as soon as possible in the latest legal setback to the military's "don't ask, don't tell" policy.

The decision by U.S. District Judge Ronald Leighton came in a closely watched case as a tense debate has been playing out over the policy. Senate Republicans blocked an effort to lift the ban this week, but Leighton is now the second federal judge this month to deem the policy unconstitutional.

More ....

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Jeez do you really think Im that simple?I have a right to work in the private sector with no discrimination.
Actually, no you don't. That's why it's called the private sector. There is no federal law protecting gays from discrimination in privately owned businesses. That's why the Boy Scouts can kick out gay members and why eHarmony doesn't have to accept gay customers. Private business has every right to discriminate based on sexual orientation. It's the law of the land. Your employer may choose to not discriminate because they understand it's wrong, or you may work in a state that bans discrimination based on sexual preference (about half do), but it is not against federal law for private business to discriminate against you.

Gays are, however, protected from discrimination in federal jobs, other than the biggest government employer there is, the US military.
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Old 10-04-2010, 03:56 PM
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Honula..there is a hint to what you speak in the Dec. of Ind.




Why the doorknobs failed to stick it in the constitution,I'll never know.
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Old 10-04-2010, 05:05 PM
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One more thing,Honula baby...GenuineCrazyLady is trying to mock you.



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There has to be a constructive answer to this. A few points:

1. Gay Americans who want to serve their country have every right to do so, and their service is as vital as anyone else's and should be respected accordingly.

2. Just as when the decision to let women serve in the military was made, this presents challenges not previously encountered when it was a single-sex unit. For example, we separate the sexes into different quarters for sleeping, showering, and any other suitably private activities. We don't let male and female G.I's use the same multiperson showers at the same time.

As previous posters in this thread have pointed out, it would be a ridiculous and sweeping generalization to think that every gay serviceman wants to be romantically involved with straights. And the "Don't Ask, Don't Tell" situation, while possibly understandable in the short term when it was introduced, is not a good long term solution.

And, also as pointed out earlier, male, female, gay, straight -- they all serve together, and on the battlefield none of those distinctions matter. What matters is loyalty to the country and fellow members of the armed forces, competence, honor and all the good qualities that the military instills.

So, the question is, what REASONABLE modifications could be made to the existing setup to make everybody reasonably comfortable, once they get used to it. Again, the inclusion of females in the past should be our guide for the future.
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In the military, gays are currently sleeping and showing with same-sex straights.

So everything will change when gays are no longer forced to hide or deny their sexual preferences in order to serve their country and have the job of soldier.

I suggest the military create "straights only!" sleeping and shower zones.

I don't know how they would then keep out gays and their gay cooties.

Maybe if the gays just keep quiet about being gay.

Or try this: straight males and females sleep and shower in one facility, and gay men and women sleep and shower in another. Because it's all about sex.
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Am waiting for Stevie-poo to come out of the closet right here..in this thread.



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In the military, gays are currently sleeping and showing with same-sex straights.

So everything will change when gays are no longer forced to hide or deny their sexual preferences in order to serve their country and have the job of soldier.

I suggest the military create "straights only!" sleeping and shower zones.

I don't know how they would then keep out gays and their gay cooties.

Maybe if the gays just keep quiet about being gay.

Or try this: straight males and females sleep and shower in one facility, and gay men and women sleep and shower in another. Because it's all about sex.

I should get a bunk with all females.

But really... nothing should change except DADT being repealed. Its working just fine now.. and its not like people dont realize who their fellow gay soilders are. They already bunk with them, shower with them. Its not like once DADT is repealed, all the gays will now force rainbow helmets on everyone.

Those freakin Homo's ruin everything! They should just shut up and pray to get saved and become Un-Homo!
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Actually, no you don't. That's why it's called the private sector. There is no federal law protecting gays from discrimination in privately owned businesses. That's why the Boy Scouts can kick out gay members and why eHarmony doesn't have to accept gay customers. Private business has every right to discriminate based on sexual orientation. It's the law of the land. Your employer may choose to not discriminate because they understand it's wrong, or you may work in a state that bans discrimination based on sexual preference (about half do), but it is not against federal law for private business to discriminate against you.

Gays are, however, protected from discrimination in federal jobs, other than the biggest government employer there is, the US military.
GCL,


I would like to make up with you..even after all the tasteless, disgusting and completely vile things you have said to me without any legitimate sense of what activities a civilized person should conduct themselves

That said...may I have a photo of your bush?




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